Win, lose or draw at the World Cup- there’s no excuse for domestic abuse | News

As many of us gather with friends and family to watch the World Cup, police and domestic abuse charities will be preparing for a surge in calls.

Sadly, there’s a darker side to the tournament. During World Cup 2014, Lancaster University researchers found reports of domestic abuse increased by 38% when England lost a game. In some homes, the competitive nature of a match, combined with drinking and possibly gambling can be a recipe for abuse. It doesn’t have to involve violence either. Some victims say their partner’s controlling behaviour gets worse after a football game.

In 2015, the law changed to recognise acts of control and coercion as a form of abuse. These types of behaviour are wide-ranging but examples include: telling someone what to wear, when they can go out, how much money they can have, what friends they can see, putting them down in front of others and giving them the ‘silent treatment’.

 

Signs to look out for

Domestic abuse is often hidden from sight, even from close family and friends. It’s important that we all know how to spot and act on the signs of abuse – here’s what to look out for:

• a person having injuries, and saying it was an ‘accident’;

• they stay at home more and miss work or social occasions without explanation;

• they dress in clothes designed to hide bruises or scars (such as long sleeves in warm weather or sunglasses indoors);

• a change in their behaviour such as becoming more withdrawn;

• they don’t take your calls or respond to your messages;

• they appear overly anxious, worried or depressed.

 

How to get help

Thankfully, there’s lots of support available for victims of domestic abuse and their families.

If you need support, or you think someone else might, get in touch with our Domestic Abuse and Violence Service on 01204 329636 or email davservice@ boltonathome.org.uk during office hours.

You can also get support from:

• Bolton Safeguarding Adults Team 01204 337000

• National Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 2000 247

• Greater Manchester Domestic Abuse Helpline 0800 254 0909

• Fortalice 01204 365677

• Endeavour 01204 394842

• Age UK Bolton 01204 382411

• Your GP or other NHS health providers

• Police- you can call the local police on the 101 non-emergency number or call 999 in an emergency

Further contacts, links and numbers here: www.boltonathome.org.uk/domestic-abuse

 

Please remember – the best way to stop abuse is to tell someone.